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Teach Your Volunteers How to Quit

May 21, 2019 by Mike O'Brien Articles, How To's

Everyone will eventually leave your church…including you. That’s why we need to teach volunteers how to quit. It was a helpful paradigm shift for me to begin to see my church and her volunteers through a more eternal, Kingdom of God mindset. God has entrusted us to help fulfill the mission of the church with our own talents along with those we recruit, train and allow graceful dismissal.

Yes: “graceful dismissal.” The coming and going of volunteers can be one of the most difficult things about ministry. I’ve had good friends—people I’ve mentored, held their babies, experienced true life send me a text like this:

“Hey man, thanks for sending the schedule for the next three months. Sorry I didn’t block out any dates. Feeling super swamped and sensing from God I need to spend more time with family—I hope you understand.” – Jim (Not his real name!)

How does this happen? What is going on here? How hard is it to serve at church two hours out of 168 hours in a week? How we as worship leaders respond in such moments is crucial. Over the years (and through God’s help) I have recalibrated my expectations for volunteers and realized there are pastoral things we can do even as they leave us. Here are three things to keep in mind:

EXPECT QUITTERS

We must be ready for the possibility that anyone could quit at any time. Hold people loosely and be prepared for changes in life. This does not mean you live in fear or with a scarcity mindset, but we should not think things will stay the same. Have a plan in place for attrition and make sure you are ready to respond when people want to quit. This means we are constantly recruiting and training sound techs and musicians. Constantly.

GIVE PROCESS FOR QUITTERS

We are usually pretty good at telling new recruits what we expect of them on the front end of a commitment, but we don’t often teach people how to give notice and leave the team. We must have gracious off-ramps systems and expectations for volunteers. Teaching people how to “quit well” can be part of your initiation process.

For example, “If at any time you need a break from serving either temporarily or permanently, please give your leader six to eight weeks notice so we can identify new folks to help and allow for a smooth transition.”

BLESS QUITTERS

There will be some exceptions to this, but in general, we should bless the socks off of those who are stepping down from our teams. It’s important we recognize their contributions and let them know how much they are appreciated.

For one such volunteer, I wrote a thank you note and itemized a summary of all the hours they served and the number of people they impacted through their volunteer hours. Depending on the length of commitment, you could recognize them from the stage or throw a party. This speaks volumes and often people will return to service later, when the time is right for them.

Sometimes people want to quit prematurely because of a system, relational or workflow issue. This means their reason for quitting may not be something on their end. If someone quits via text or email, I always make a phone call and ask them why and if there are any other contributing factors. Sometimes it’s something small that can be remedied. That keeps them on the team when we solve the issue.

Ministry leaders set the pace for how we recruit, train and sustain our teams—and how we reflect the goodness of God’s kingdom!

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About Mike O'Brien

Mike O’Brien is passionate about teaching and mentoring through music. His calling is to use his experience as a producer, worship leader, songwriter, and multi-instrumentalist to come alongside musicians, helping them more fully worship God with their instrument and lives.

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