Young Adults in Church
6. Make Space for Doubt and Discovery
Faith formation is a process. Young adults may go through seasons of questioning, and if they feel church is a place where doubt is shamed, they may walk away. Instead, create space for curiosity and theological exploration. Offer classes or groups focused on apologetics, biblical study, or big questions of life and faith.
7. Build Authentic Community
Sunday services alone won’t sustain relationships. Churches must create rhythms of community that foster friendship, accountability, and shared purpose. This could look like small groups tailored to young adult schedules, weekend retreats, or shared service projects. Life together often leads to faith that lasts.
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8. Highlight Stories of Transformation
Celebrate what God is doing in the lives of young adults in church. Testimonies—whether during services, social media, or newsletters—remind others that their peers are walking with Christ. It also builds momentum and shows that the church values their voices.
9. Support Their Life Stage Transitions
The years between 18 and 30 often involve major transitions—college, jobs, relationships, and more. Churches that offer support during these seasons (career advice, budgeting workshops, young marriage support, etc.) become places of stability and guidance. Practical investment leads to spiritual trust.
10. Be Patient With Young Adults in Church
Retention isn’t achieved in a single event or sermon. Encouraging young adults in church requires consistent pursuit. Keep extending invitations, showing up for their moments, and speaking life over their journey. A church that doesn’t give up on them, even in wandering seasons, can become their spiritual home for the long haul.
While programs and activities have their place, the key to keeping young adults in church is a culture rooted in relationship, relevance, and spiritual authenticity. They need to know the church isn’t just a place to go—it’s a people to belong to, a truth to wrestle with, and a mission worth giving their lives to. When congregations embrace that vision, they become a place where young adults don’t just show up occasionally—they stay, grow, and lead.
