15 Ways to Keep Church Hoppers From Coming Back

Transfer growth is rarely a win for the kingdom, but will you take actual steps to prevent it from happening?

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As I was packing the Ryder truck in 1999 in preparation for our move to the suburbs of Philadelphia to plant Christ’s Church of the Valley, I told God, “I promise we will grow this church through conversion growth ONLY.” For the last 13 years I’ve been dealing with the joys and travails of that promise ever since, and that meant discouraging church hoppers.

Every church leader I know agrees that transfer growth, one Christian deciding to leave their church to attend yours ( church hoppers ) is rarely a win for the kingdom. But few take actual steps to prevent it from happening, as if the matter was completely out of our realm of influence.

Not quite sure how to make good on my promise to God (and with few models to learn from in this regard), we’ve tried 15 strategic things over the years to fend off the tide of church transfers.

15 Ways to Keep Church Hoppers From Coming Back

1. We’ve taken time during our biggest Sundays (Easter, Christmas, etc.) to de-invite Christian visitors from coming back the following Sunday.

2. We continuously remind our people NOT to invite their friends that are already Christians to our church.

3. During our introductory 101 class we take time to explain why 80 percent of the Christians in the room should never come back to our church.

4. When I meet visitors after the service and find out that they’re from a Bible-believing Christian church, I always encourage them to go back to their former church.

5. I tell senior pastors I coach that when picking elders, staff or volunteer team leaders, we always look for those converted from within the ministry of our church first.

6. If a churched visitor attends our church and we find out they have unresolved conflict in a previous church, we deny them membership until they go back, resolve the conflict and we receive written verification from that church’s leadership.

7. We never advertise our church on the church page in the newspaper, on Christian radio stations or in the Christian Yellow Pages.

8. Occasionally, for no reason, we instruct our ushers to punch people in the face if they look like they’re visiting from another church.*

9. We don’t design worship services that cater to consumeristic self-interested Christians who “want to be fed.”

10. We never play in a local church softball league.

11. We have poker groups at our church.

12. We offer comedy nights with a mixture of Christian and non-Christian comedians, along with a cash bar.

13. We play non-Christian music in our outdoor speakers as people walk up to the building on Sunday mornings.

14. We preach in-your-face, sin-convicting, gospel-centered, prophetic messages that call people to repent, take up their crosses and suffer for the sake of the kingdom.

15. Finally, when all else fails, I strategically mention that the Left Behind series, Amish-based Christian fiction and Thomas Kinkade paintings are blights on the Christian community.

That usually does the trick.

*Good news—due to the overwhelming pressure we received from certain Christian groups, we stopped the practice of punching Christian visitors in the face years ago. So if you are ever in Philadelphia, please feel free to stop by for a visit. ☺

Brian Jones
Brian Jones loves helping Christians live thoughtful, courageous lives. Brian is founding Senior Pastor of Christ’s Church of the Valley, a church of 2,000+ amazing people in the suburbs of Philadelphia. He is a graduate of Princeton Theological Seminary (M.Div.) and Cincinnati Christian University (B.A.). He blogs at www.brianjones.com, but if you’re a Senior Pastor you might want to check out his website, Senior Pastor Central.