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Kurt Bubna – What I’ve Learned Along the Way

June 4, 2024 by Kurt Bubna Articles, Discipleship

When you’ve lived as long as I have, you discover you’re not as smart, good, or informed as you once believed. I have always made it my life’s goal to be a learner, and most of what I’ve learned, I’ve learned the hard way.

Here’s a humble suggestion: You don’t have to wait to be 60 or 70 to learn what I’ve learned. (And you also don’t have to learn everything the hard way.)

What I’ve Learned

I have realized that I can’t “fix” anybody, and I am not responsible for the choices of others. The weight of the world isn’t mine to carry or solve.

I am learning not to be uncomfortable with or humiliated by my emotions. It’s my emotions that make me human.

I have figured out that if I must choose between being relational and being right—it’s always best to choose the path of relationship. I don’t need to be the guy who is so quick to correct people, even when I know they are wrong. Besides, in my journey, I have been wrong plenty of times. As someone once said, “Peace is more precious than perfection.”

My words matter more than I sometimes realize. I can build up or crush someone with what I choose to say. It’s always best to find something good to point out. And as my mama used to say, “If you can’t say anything nice, then don’t say anything.”

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About Kurt Bubna

Kurt W. Bubna is a blogger, author, speaker, regular radio and television personality, and the Sr. Pastor of Eastpoint Church, a large non-denominational congregation in Spokane Valley, Washington. Bubna published his first book, Epic Grace: Chronicles of a Recovering Idiot, with Tyndale in 2013. He has also published Mr. & Mrs.: How to Thrive in Perfectly Imperfect Marriage, The Rookie’s Guide to Getting Published, a children’s book and a devotional. He and his wife, Laura, have been married for over forty years and have four grown children and seven grandchildren. For more information, please visit: http://www.KurtBubna.com.

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