3. Get some help.
Yep. Go see a counselor. Talk to close friends. Confess your sins to each other. Process your shortcomings with a mentor.
It’s essential that you do this not just when you’re in crisis but when you’re not in crisis. You will grow the most then. And you will prepare yourself proactively before your next crisis hits.
4. Read, listen, grow.
I am constantly reading, listening to podcasts and growing in the area of emotional maturity.
Classic sources like Daniel Goleman’s work on emotional intelligence can help you a lot.
Pete and Geri Scazzero have an amazing ministry on emotional and spiritual health in ministry. Reading Pete’s book The Emotionally Healthy Church a decade ago was a game changer for me.
And finally, if you want a simple cheat sheet to get you started today, listen to Andy Stanley’s free four-part “Enemies of the Heart” podcast. In about 90 minutes total, Andy will walk you through how to deal with anger, jealousy, guilt and greed. Incredible. And of course, you can pick up his book on those subjects as well. Exceptionally practical and helpful advice.
So what’s the bottom line?
Crisis reveals character.
You can write it off as instinct or proof you’re human. But you won’t grow from it.
Your character is proof you’re still sinful and that Christ would like to take over more territory in your life.
What are you learning about crisis and character?
